Hola Papi

From popular LGBTQ advice columnist and writer John Paul Brammer comes a hilarious, heartwarming memoir-in-essays chronicling his journey growing up as a queer, mixed-race kid in America's heartland to becoming the "Chicano Carrie Bradshaw" of his generation.
"I loved ¡Hola Papi!" —Shea Serrano *"An invigorating and vital read." —R. Eric Thomas *"We are lucky to live in the era of JP Brammer." —Alexander Chee *"JP Brammer is the best storyteller. " —Heather Havrilesky *"[Brammer is] a beautiful writer." —Rainbow Rowell *"Essential and necessary." —Jonny Sun
The first time someone called John Paul (JP) Brammer "Papi" was on the popular gay hookup app Grindr. At first, it was flattering; JP took this as white-guy speak for "hey, handsome." Who doesn't want to be called handsome? But then it happened again and again...and again,...